Looking for a dominant who is into it for the lifestyle/community not his damn genitals.
20+ Years of experience. Munches, demos, parties, damn... You name it... I might have either done it, research it, slapped it on my fuck you hard limit list, or tried it four times to make sure I hated it. I'm submissive at my core, always have been.
Highly self aware and adaptive. I don't say that with ego, because it's a double edge sword. Some might call me a brat with clearly defined respect and boundaries. Others, might call me a tornado or cute but clearly twisted. I'm open minded and I don't judge but I do know what I like. Deep tissue impact play, (For cathartic floaty subspace) edge play, dark psychology, set up for failure, a little ***, medical restraints.
Allow me to be clear. D/s sporadic. I engage in dark age play/***d regression/*** as tools to create:
Focused/Obedient Subspace
***/Emotional Subspace
Detached/Quiet Subspace
Bonus points if you know what I'm talking about.
I used to vet for local communities so no don't come seeking a challenge. I don't play that. If you enjoy a bit of philosophy logical and rational thinking? Hi. Just know, I'm ah still very female and yeah emotions do happen. I'm not looking to be broken completely. Only, broken in that way that gives me peace and then? For the cycle to start again. If I want the floaty subspace? I'll ask.
Ahem, IF YOU COME AT ME WITH YOUR DICK I WILL LAUGH. PUT THE LOTION BOTTLE DOWN AND GO TOUCH GRASS!
I am not here to satisfy your hormonal needs. I'm looking for a real dynamic.
I'm not looking to fold over completely control for a highly structured daily life. I'm looking to pass off the weight for a short while and to have a little bit of fun doing it. I want to lose. If I win, what's the point? Still, I want a worthy opponent to lose to. So, no "on your knees girl." Not for me. I'm snarky, sassy, teasing, intelligent in ways, clever... But, I don't cross the line. I might flirt with it but if I do cross it? I'll be down on myself more than you are.
Physical at***s? Bite sized and fluffy! Okay, fluffy to a point but actually yeah, pretty short. Caucasian. Long straight hair. I don't look my age, never have. Not a brag, a reality.
If you wanna talk? Answer this question. When was the last time you held someone still without raising your voice? Tell me what happened. No, not fantasy, not sex.
